According to the blogger, in the second stage, with the separation from his parents and the stable environment of his family, his overall behavior pattern and inner emotional environment could only become extremely disorganized and sensitive. At this time, he had memory loss, cognitive impairment and a very low degree of psychological maturity. He was just like an ignorant child who was suddenly thrown into a complex society.

During this period, Qi Cong needed to return to a stable and safe environment immediately. He needed parents who he could trust to gently and patiently introduce and lead him into a world that was completely new to him.

But what could Jiang Zhaoyan, the only person who could play the role of parent, do? He made Qi Cong start a business with him.

He put Qi Cong in a turbulent and high-pressure environment for a long time, making Qi Cong get in touch with all kinds of unknown people to talk business, and cheat. He made Qi Cong face the most complex and sophisticated side of the world, surrounding him with all kinds of negative emotions for a long time.

Worst of all, he frequently asked Qi Cong to take the financial resources left to him by his “bad parents” and let Qi Cong and his parents “create a false friendship” in exchange for benefits and help.

A patient who has put his parents into the category of “threat” and “distrustful” and even took the initiative to escape from his parents, was instructed by his only trusted “parent”to frequently take the financial resources of the people he wanted to run away from. This kind of behavior, against the will of the patient, would undoubtedly increase the patient’s psychological burden and make the patient have self-doubt.

The blogger’s analysis here seemed to become very angry as his tone became increasingly harsh.

He stated that, sadly, Qi Cong was a patient with amnesia and his inner uneasiness needed to be resolved by establishing positive contact with the outside world. However, Jiang Zhaoyan’s actions were all contrary to this point. He relentlessly put Qi Cong into a completely negative environment, in which Qi Cong not only didn’t establish a positive connection with the outside world, but also developed a false perception that the whole world was a bad and oppressive place.

What would a patient with a low level of psychological maturity and a weak and crippled protective barrier do after developing such a false perception? This would cause avoidance, loss of trust in all things outside, an unwillingness to open up to anyone, while he would become even more dependent on his “parent” and become more eager for his “parental” care and protection.

That’s why Qi Cong wanted to be with Jiang Zhaoyan no matter what. That’s why Qi Cong was submissive to Jiang Zhaoyan, because he was seeking care and protection from him. In this way, he wanted to feel safe!

Still, Jiang Zhaoyan didn’t even give him this.

What did Jiang Zhaoyan do to Qi Cong who was desperately short of any sense of security? He would unscrupulously yell, scold and vent his all negative emotions at Qi Cong for a long time, squeezing him for labor and allowing his family to bully Qi Cong. Just as Qi Cong was gradually cornered, Jiang Zhaoyan brutally blocked Qi Cong’s way to ask others for help and his sense of security.

The blogger marked the phrase “Jiang Zhaoyan brutally blocked Qi Cong’s way to ask others for help and his sense of security” in red, indicating that this was the main point.

He posted a few screenshots from a former employee of Yanhuang, the post made by Tian Wu. It referred to Jiang Zhaoyan’s control over Qi Cong making friends or even the way he dressed. He also included Jiang Zhaoyan’s reaction to meeting Qi Cong in the elevator of the Dingli Hotel. Jiang Zhaoyan reprimanded Qi Cong, saying, “What are you wearing?”

Then he wrote two points below: Social isolation and personality denial.

Social isolation was very easy to understand. It meant not letting Qi Cong establish a normal, healthy, stable friendship or love relationship with anyone else. This while at the same time keeping Qi Cong in an oppressive vacuum environment and not giving Qi Cong a chance to get emotional comfort and a sense of security from others.

Personality denial was a bit more complicated. The blogger stated it wasn’t as easy as Jiang Zhaoyan controlling what Qi Cong could wear or denying Qi Cong. The blogger hoped that everyone would pay attention to Jiang Zhaoyan’s behavior, which reveals his daily control over Qi Cong thoughts and life, as well as his habitual negative criticism.

From the evaluation of the staff of Yanghuang, and the development of Yanghuang for the past few years, there was no doubt that Qi Cong’s own abilities were undoubtedly very excellent. Yet, what does such an excellent person look like in front of Jiang Zhaoyan? Cowardly, timid, easily bullied and not very confident.

Wasn’t a person of excellent abilities having such a character a bit contradictory? Or very contradictory? Wasn’t it strange? It wasn’t that strange. Qi Cong was a patient whose psychological protective barrier was left uncompleted and became extremely sensitive due to a lack of security. It was inevitable that his character would become like this when he has been denied by his trusted “parent” for a long time.

All the while, Jiang Zhaoyan blocked any possibilities of Qi Cong seeking help from others.

Social isolation, so that Qi Cong would have no one around him to seek help from.

The denial of his personality made Qi Cong lose his ego and self-confidence, so when he was hurt he would only ever think that he was the one who did something wrong or was bad. He would also not think of seeking help from others when he was hurt.

The blogger’s analysis here contained a hint of regret in his tone.

He stated that Qi Cong still had a chance to break his abnormal dependence on Jiang Zhaoyan and get back on track at this time. At that time, Qi Cong’s inner protective barrier was unable to get emotional comfort from Jiang Zhaoyan for a long time, and since he stayed in a high-pressure environment for a long time he could break at any moment.

As long as there was a person with good intentions that would give Qi Cong emotional comfort and the security he needed, Qi Cong could be freed from the barrier called Jiang Zhaoyan.

As long as someone could successfully establish a trusting relationship with Qi Cong, someone other than Jiang Zhaoyan, they could change his situation and change things for the  better.

Unfortunately it didn’t happen.

There was no one in Qi Cong’s social desert who had good intentions toward him, no one who found out in time that something was wrong with him and gave him help. Qi Cong was also unable to overcome the effects of Jiang Zhaoyan’s personality denial and muster the courage to ask for help.

He was isolated and helpless, unable to pacify and deal with himself, so he could only fall into the prison of negative emotions built by Jiang Zhaoyan and his family. Then he eventually turned into the third stage of the disease process – the breakdown stage.

At this point, the second stage of analysis was completed. The blogger concluded that Jiang Zhaoyan has an unshirkable responsibility for the deterioration of Qi Cong’s condition at this stage. It was Jiang Zhaoyan’s series of conscious or unconscious bullying, degrading, and controlling behavior based on the principle of obtaining benefits that little by little forced Qi Cong into a desperate situation.

Finally, the last stage.

At this point, the tone of the blogger was no longer severe, but turned into indifference. It was a kind of condemnation and disdainful indifference.

He wrote: The deterioration of Qi Cong’s condition in the second stage was also affected by factors other than Jiang Zhaoyan, such as the environment, the pressure of his family, and the patient’s own character. However the deterioration of Qi Cong’s condition in the third stage and the final search for death were 100% Jiang Zhaoyan’s responsibility.

At this stage, Qi Cong was fortunate enough to get a brief breathing space after Jiang Zhaoyan deprived him of his position. He left Jiang Zhaoyan’s side, leaving the environment where he was completely controlled by Jiang Zhaoyan. This made Qi Cong’s over-dependence on him slightly diminished by Jiang Zhaoyan depriving him of his means of survival. He didn’t go back to Jiang Zhaoyan and just stayed in his nest, where he thought he would be safe.

If Jiang Zhaoyan had disappeared from Qi Cong’s life, then his inner world, which was already on the verge of collapse and riddled with holes might have been saved. Qi Cong’s dependence on Jiang Zhaoyan might also further weaken. Ideally he might be able to bandage his wounds in the nest and try to get in touch with other means of survival to start a new life.

Unfortunately, Jiang Zhaoyan didn’t give Qi Cong this opportunity. After depriving Qi Cong of his job, he was still unwilling to let Qi Cong go.

The blogger posted several more pictures, all of which showed Jiang Zhaoyan frequently harassing Qi Cong.

Under the screenshots, the blogger wrote: As you can see, Jiang Zhaoyan kept coming to Qi Cong’s door when there were signs of him leaving this abnormal dependency. He kept reinforcing the emotional connection between him and Qi Cong in a brutal way that was full of control and demonstrating his authority in front of Qi Cong. Here I have to emphasize once again, Qi Cong is a patient, a patient whose inner world may collapse at any time.

Then the blogger posted a screenshot of the surveillance footage of Jiang Zhaoyan throwing away Qi Cong’s personal belongings.

Blogger: This was Jiang Zhaoyan’s last personality denial to Qi Cong before he tried to commit suicide, and it was also the worst and most serious one. He regarded Qi Cong’s trust, dedication, and feelings as garbage, snatched them away and threw them into the trash can in front of Qi Cong. This gave Qi Cong a strong sign – your home is not safe, it can’t keep you safe.

At this point, the last source of security in Qi Cong’s heart was brutally crushed, making him completely and utterly abandoned in a desert of malice and harm.

The blogger’s analysis stopped here.

In the last point, he wrote about why he felt that Jiang Zhaoyan should be put in prison.

He wrote: In analyzing the case of Qi Cong, I assumed countless times that if Jiang Zhaoyan wasn’t there, Qi Cong might have gotten better. But alas, there are no ifs in this world, and Jiang Zhaoyan never seemed to intend to let Qi Cong go. When the rescue that is supposed to represent kindness and hope is distorted and tainted by interests, when the disease becomes a tool for blackmail and the kidnap of the family of the patient and patient itself, when the patient’s request for help becomes a bargaining chip for a cold-blooded bully who wants to control others wantonly and when some people become the biggest obstacle to the patients’ survival, then I think prison is the most suitable place for these sinners to spend the rest of their lives.

Finally, the blogger gave his blessing to Qi Cong. He wished that as the sky is high and the sea is wide, Qi Cong would no longer have to interact with Jiang Zhaoyan.

Then the blogger’s article was over.

 

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All the netizens who were overwhelmed by the melons and public opinion, after reading this article, unanimously quieted down.

This kind of stillness wasn’t calm, but a kind of silence due to anger. This mood was so full of pressure that it needed something to calm down. Then it became sullen, as no one knew how to express it, making it very quiet.

The reading volume of this long Weibo article was rising, but the comment area was still somewhat deserted. Some people couldn’t help cursing Jiang Zhaoyan, some sympathized and sigh, while others discussed some details in the text. Then the stillness was broken after two comments appeared.

Keyboard of Justice: After reading this, I feel very bad. The blogger is right that Jiang Zhaoyan never intended to let Qi Cong go, even if he was engaged to someone else. Do you still remember the news about Yanhuang Smart Homes’ sponsorship of “Legend of Youth”? I’ll give you another piece of information. Jiang Zhaoyan, after basically finalizing the cooperation with the cast of “Legend of Youth,” instructed the crew to “take good care” of Qi Cong, because Qi Cong wasn’t well.

Keyboard of Justice: Continuing from there, Jiang Zhaoyan also put his fiancé, An Xiahe, into the Art Direction Team of the drama. He obviously just wanted to continue to control Qi Cong’s life and he was even prepared to take his fiance with him. I reasonably suspect that Jiang Zhaoyan was behind the boycott of Qi Cong, buying the gossip accounts and water armies to smear Qi Cong and stop his debut. He has the capital, the motive, and is bad enough.

 

Edited by: Antiope1

 

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